So I went on my lucky date number 20! My 20th man is super awesome, cool, laid-back, the chillest guy I’ve ever met. Let’s call him Tony, because his real name is one of the fake names I’ve given on my blog. hah! He is 33 years old, lives in Miami and works as a Chef and he owns a small catering business, totally legit he sent me his website and information first hand. I usually don’t go on dates the first few days we talk, I give it at least 3 weeks to at least a month, but since he was only visiting for a week, I decided to go out with him. I was having second thoughts, I wasn’t sure if he looked cute or not from his photos. I literally had to send his profile to five different people to decide, whenever I’m on my period my judgement is a little off so I needed a bunch of second opinions, and thankfully I’m surrounded with the most judgmental girls ever. Alongside I haven’t been on a date in two weeks, and a real date in over a month, but after talking to my best friend and her pushing me to go out since I have nothing else better to do…so I fucking went, I volunteered to get him since he was just visiting, thankfully he looked so much better in his pictures, the photos made him look older but in person he was very charming and he reminded me of my best friend’s boyfriend. Typical latin papi, machismo, and I bet he probably has a juicy chorizo. He wanted to eat italian food, but the only places I knew was around North Beach/Russian hill area and parking is a bitch and I’m not down for that cause. So I told him about this Cuban Restaurant Cha Cha Cha and he was excited to go. As usual, I ordered my tea since I’m still not drinking! First time I was at Cha Cha Cha was with Anthony #2, there’s too many guys named Anthony in my life. Anyway, I did not let those fond memories cloud my date with Tony. Our conversations I would give a solid 7, it wasn’t terrible but it didn’t flow like the my other guys. Tony is super chill though and slightly funny. He is a bit of a hot mess, I could tell that he was a heavy drinker and enjoys going to strip clubs a little too much. I even told him which strip club to go in the city, lol Centerfolds was pretty fun, me and a group of 7 girls plus my friend’s boyfriend all went for new years eve back in 2009, lol. I can’t even tell you the ratchetry that went on that night. So back to my date, he asked if I wanted to hit up a bar, I wasn’t feeling it already and was ready to go home but he mentioned that his family was going to take him around the city since he wanted to see Lombard St. too, so I told him that I can drive by..it was pretty cool to see him super excited and everyone knows I’m bad with directions so I feel super proud of myself that I was able to be a little tour guide for the night. Lol don’t judge me, this is very rare! The night was winding down and it was time for us to go our separate ways, I dropped him off at the hotel, I stayed in my car and gave a friendly hug. He wanted to hang out again the next day, but since I knew he was leaving Sunday I lied and told him that I won’t be free until Sunday. He was cool to hang out with for one night but not two nights in a row, besides at least like this I made a new friend, especially one that lives in Miami. So next time I’m in South Beach I know for a fact I’ll be taken cared of. And ladies and gents..that is what you call future investment hah hah. Goodnight!